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| arizonadreaming2009@yahoo.com 2006-04-28, 1:21 pm |
| Sorry to bother you guys again but I have another question concerning
daycare. My son is almost 12 yrs old and he doesn't like his daycare.
The only explanation he can give me is that he doesn't like one kid
there who is younger than him by about a year and a half. This kid
does tend to bully and he bites my son quite a bit. I know the staff
is doing all that is possible but here's the kicker. The biter is son
to one of the ladies that owns and runs the daycare. My son also feels
apprehensive when the mother of the biter reprimands him for little
things such as finishing his breakfast, cleaning up, etc. The other
lady that runs the daycare is the grandmother of the biter. She is much
stricter and what's funny is that my son likes her more than the other
lady. I don't think that there's anything abusive or out of line going
on at the daycare and my son can give no other reasons than the ones I
outlined. He tells me that he doesn't want to go to daycare and that
all he wants to do is stay home. Any suggestions are helpful.
Thanks!!!!
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| Here in Minnesota 2006-04-28, 5:21 pm |
| arizonadreaming2009@yahoo.com wrote:
> Sorry to bother you guys again but I have another question concerning
> daycare. My son is almost 12 yrs old and he doesn't like his daycare.
> The only explanation he can give me is that he doesn't like one kid
> there who is younger than him by about a year and a half. This kid
> does tend to bully and he bites my son quite a bit. I know the staff
> is doing all that is possible but here's the kicker. The biter is son
> to one of the ladies that owns and runs the daycare. My son also
> feels apprehensive when the mother of the biter reprimands him for
> little things such as finishing his breakfast, cleaning up, etc. The
> other lady that runs the daycare is the grandmother of the biter. She
> is much stricter and what's funny is that my son likes her more than
> the other lady. I don't think that there's anything abusive or out of
> line going on at the daycare and my son can give no other reasons
> than the ones I outlined. He tells me that he doesn't want to go to
> daycare and that all he wants to do is stay home. Any suggestions
> are helpful. Thanks!!!!
other daycare or babysister?
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| Doug Kanter 2006-04-28, 5:21 pm |
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"Here in Minnesota" <neverwillicheckthis@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:Wtu4g.4$305.3@newsfe15.phx...
> arizonadreaming2009@yahoo.com wrote:
>
> other daycare or babysister?
>
Your son likes the grandmother because kids actually like structure (except
when they don't). And, if a kid in a public school was biting other kids,
he'd be out on his XXX until someone figured out what the hell was wrong
with him.
Biting is a health hazard. There are government agencies that oversee day
care facilities. Identify your local agency, call them, and let them know
there's a problem kid who needs to be isolated from other kids.
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| akahler@gmail.com 2006-04-28, 6:21 pm |
| A good preschool or daycare has a biting policy (and enforces it). If
they don't, find one who does!
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| I'm not gonna tell ya 2006-04-28, 6:21 pm |
| "akahler@gmail.com" <akahler@gmail.com> wrote in
news:1146258201.932805.299240@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com:
> A good preschool or daycare has a biting policy (and enforces it).
> If they don't, find one who does!
>
QUIT CROSS-POSTING! TALK ABOUT FUCKING ASSHOLES!!!!!!!!! TAKE THIS BUUSHIT SOME
PLACE ELSE!
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| Doug Kanter 2006-04-28, 6:21 pm |
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<akahler@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1146258201.932805.299240@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
>A good preschool or daycare has a biting policy (and enforces it). If
> they don't, find one who does!
>
Apparently, it's happened more than once. They may have a policy, but they
need to be taught to use it. Only enforcement and embarrassment will do
that.
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| MoParMaN 2006-04-28, 7:21 pm |
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<akahler@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1146258201.932805.299240@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
>A good preschool or daycare has a biting policy (and enforces it). If
> they don't, find one who does!
>
I know some hookers who need to have this policy too!
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| richard e white 2006-04-29, 8:21 am |
| arizonadreaming2009@yahoo.com wrote:
> Sorry to bother you guys again but I have another question concerning
> daycare. My son is almost 12 yrs old and he doesn't like his daycare.
> The only explanation he can give me is that he doesn't like one kid
> there who is younger than him by about a year and a half. This kid
> does tend to bully and he bites my son quite a bit. I know the staff
> is doing all that is possible but here's the kicker. The biter is son
> to one of the ladies that owns and runs the daycare. My son also feels
> apprehensive when the mother of the biter reprimands him for little
> things such as finishing his breakfast, cleaning up, etc. The other
> lady that runs the daycare is the grandmother of the biter. She is much
> stricter and what's funny is that my son likes her more than the other
> lady. I don't think that there's anything abusive or out of line going
> on at the daycare and my son can give no other reasons than the ones I
> outlined. He tells me that he doesn't want to go to daycare and that
> all he wants to do is stay home. Any suggestions are helpful.
> Thanks!!!!
It sounds like one of two things to me. either the mother of the biter
tends to cut her son some slack and your son may not belive she will hear
him out or he is looking for a reason to stay home an take care of
himself. He may feel like he has out grown day care. or it may be a
combanation of the two.
But then I was left home at age 9. But things have changed a lot sence
then.
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Lets Hear It For Talking Computers.
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| wadkin2000@yahoo.com 2006-04-29, 2:21 pm |
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richard e white wrote:
> arizonadreaming2009@yahoo.com wrote:
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> It sounds like one of two things to me. either the mother of the biter
> tends to cut her son some slack and your son may not belive she will hear
> him out or he is looking for a reason to stay home an take care of
> himself. He may feel like he has out grown day care. or it may be a
> combanation of the two.
> But then I was left home at age 9. But things have changed a lot sence
> then.
>
> --
> Richard The Blind Typer
> Lets Hear It For Talking Computers.
Guys, I hate to say it, but you really really should check out a
person's profile before responding to posts. :-)
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